It’s been about a decade ago when I’ve almost decided to give up on men.
I was so sick of the “bad boys”, the players and the guys who just won’t commit.
I’ve learned the hard way that getting a guy to “love” you just isn’t ENOUGH.
Why?
Because guys CHEAT on women they love.
Guys BREAK the heart of women they really do “love”, every single day.
I know you can feel it deep in your bones. You deserve a man to REALLY commit to you. Seduce you. Chase you. Be addicted to you and happily give you everything because he is thrilled that you are his girl.
And you want all that – without begging, pleading and crying.
Overview
Deep Inside I Felt I Wasn’t Good Enough
I’ve been through some unbelievably painful times in my relationships, where I wasn’t sure we’d make it, times when I cried myself to sleep every night, or kept myself emotionally cold and distant so things wouldn’t hurt so bad.
And to win back the relationship of my dreams, to make a guy fall in love with me truly, I had to do some research, and get some serious help.
I had to dig, and dig hard for the not-so-obvious answers and hard-to-find information and THEN I had to do the difficult work of taking a look at what I needed to change in myself, and in the way I interacted with men.
(And I wish I knew this stuff I’m going to share with you sooner).
Here’s what I found:
Do This to Get Him Committed
If you want a man to commit to you, chase you and keep the spark going forever, getting him to “love” you is NOT enough.
You have to make him addicted to you, obsessed with you until he decides (completely on his own) that he wants to be serious.
Make sure you understand this: just because a man “feels” that he is in love with you, doesn’t mean that he will really commit to you and only you.
Discover What Men Really Think
Only 1 in 1000 women knows the real truth about how men think and what they need from a woman for them to be able to give everything to her.
Most of us fall for the usual “just be yourself” nonsense only to find ourselves alone (again).
The truth is that you DON’T have to change yourself to make him fall in love.
You do have to change the way you interact with men. Because men are different from women, and your man is not like you.
He doesn’t think as you do, and the stuff that’s important to you is not the stuff that’s important to him.
That’s an undeniable truth.
The sooner you accept it, the better. The sooner you’ll learn (from a good source!!) about the powerful assets every woman naturally has to get and keep her man – the better.
(Without ultimatums, pleading, crying and playing games).
Here’s how to make him fall for you:
How to Make Him Fall In Love With You
And here those 3 simple steps:
1. Make him realize you don’t NEED him.
2. Plant a “Future seed” in his mind”.
3. Make it HIS idea to pursue you, want you and make YOU commit.
Rooting for ya,
Lisa
Mel says
I met this guy on the dating app and I’ve seen him few times but now he seems really distant. What should I do.
Kimberly says
I’m in Love with my FWB dude. Yes we have sex but we hold hands and he holds tight, we watch movies, go ride n drink in his truck but I want to know how he feels but want dare ask, I know he thinks about me he did say that. I want a real relationship with him. HELP
Lisa Redfield says
Here’s a post that’ll show you what to do: https://howtogetaguytowantyou.com/friends-with-benefits-advice/
Not gonna say my name says
Not that useful. But your questions to ask a guy totally were hilarious! Me and my crush spent hours laughing!
Thank you so much!
Suzanne says
I coach a lot of singles that are stuck and want a happy and healthy relationship. Good article. I’ll post it on my Facebook page that refers to your page. I totally agree with a lot of this.
Lisa Redfield says
Thanks Suzanne, I appreciate it!:)
Emilia says
Hey Suzanne, what is your facebook page?