Have you ever wondered why some men treat their women like a princess even if they’re way past the dating phase?
Do you want to know how to make your boyfriend love you more?
Maybe you have a friend that has this “perfect man”.After many years he still buys her flowers, remembers every special date, and gives her his complete admiration and full attention whenever you see them together.
You may ask yourself: Why can’t MY boyfriend treat me like this?
Why can’t he love me in this passionate, devoted, and admiring way? Do I not DESERVE to be treated like a princess?
How to make your boyfriend love you MORE
You want your boyfriend to always prefer being with you over his friends, to not ignore you to watch a game on TV, and to NOT disappear to do something fun with other people.
You want to become the center of his attention, the top of his priorities, and to be his fantasy woman.
The Secret to Making Him Want You More
This advice was given to me by my friend, Michael Fiore (relationship expert), who insists that:
You can actually get that exact SAME love, attention, and warmth from your man, regardless of how long you’ve been together or how rocky your relationship may be.
And I can almost guarantee that you’ve never considered this easy way to unlock all the love and affection that your guy is capable of giving you.
]Once you know this secret, you can literally change your boyfriend and easily influence him to treat you the way you deserve to be treated – like a princess.
Step #1 – Identify the One Thing that Really Gets Him Going
You know what I’m talking about. A certain word, a certain look, a shoulder shrug, an eye-rolling, something that really gets under his skin?
This thing that you do always produces the same process.
Within seconds his face turns lobster-red, his eyes become grey with anger and he either explodes with rage or immediately becomes silent and runs away for hours – away from you.
WHAT just happened?
His Brain Was Just Hijacked.
Have you heard about the fight or flight response? This is exactly what happens that turns a little argument to a relationship-scarring war.
A very small part in our brain, called the Amygdala, is responsible for alerting our body of danger.
The amygdala is always on duty, guarding us 24/7. It processes information and immediately “decides” it if recognizes a friend or an enemy.
That eye-rolling, or that one hurtful word you’ve said to him results in an automatic negative response over which he has almost NO control.
(Read: what to do when your boyfriend wants space)
It doesn’t matter if he is madly in love with you and considers you his best friend in the whole world. This automatic and uncontrolled response immediately SHUTS DOWN all of his emotions.
And once this happens, it’s game over.
Your man won’t listen to ANYTHING you say after this and you’ll both go round and round with finger-pointing, name-calling and laying blame on each other.
And now it feels like your boyfriend doesn’t love you enough.
The good news is:
You can uncover what these triggers are (for BOTH of you) and set the stage for both of you to plant, nurture and harvest new feelings of love and intimacy.
Step #2 – Write Down the Triggers
Think of a few actions you know set him off.
Take a piece of paper and write it down. Is it a tone you are using? A face? A specific phrase?
Ask your boyfriend what you do that sets off his emotional firebombs. But don’t get defensive…let him have his say…just listen.
Memorize these triggers.
Step #3 – Make Him Love You Forever
Did you know there are 2 things almost all women subconsciously do that scare men away?
You probably don’t even know you’re doing these two things . . . but they’re the reason so many women never find “Mr. Right,” have to settle for an “OK” guy or even up alone.
Here’s a hint:
The reason men are SCARED of you is because you want _________ while he wants __________.
Can you fill in the blanks?
If not, you need to go watch this video Right now.
Warning: It’s an emotional video.
Rooting for ya,
It’s something you must know if you want to understand exactly what your man REALLY wants, what makes him tick, and how to get him to shower you with the love, care, and affection that you deserve…not because you are forcing him to do it, but because he actually WANTS to do it.
Hey, my boyfriend is caring and loving but argues over some minor issues and when hes mad he doesnt pick calls and doesnt want to solve issues easily i need help coz am so confused
My boyfriend really wants us to have a simple living, he felt so insecure every time we were together because he is so scared thinking that i csnnot live the life that he wants. That is the cause of our arguments.
Since yesterday he didn’t reply all my text and calls. Same thing is happening today, don’t know what I did wrong. He said I’m assuming for him what does mean? Please help me out
Lisa Redfield says
He means that you are assuming that something is wrong with your relationship and he is saying you’re wrong. He is probably just going through something right now and I would give him some time and stop texting him and see what happens.
I realized what my bf really likes is when we (try to) flirt. He loves it, but I’m not very good at it. I’ve been wondering if I should call him handsome or something, but I’m way too shy even though I’ve known him for a while now. If u could offer any advice on things to say to him… That would be great because I think he’s been turned off for a while now…
Call him honey, baby, sweetheart, lover, if you’re texting send him emojis but don’t go overboard