Flirty and fun questions to ask a guy are the best thing to have if you want your crush to notice you, or start a conversation with your boyfriend. 😍
You know you really like this guy.
You want to get closer to him, make him think of you or just to have a good conversation.
But:
What to do when you run out of things to talk about?
And what can you ask over text, to keep a conversation going with the guy you like?
Fun/flirty questions can be the perfect icebreakers and conversation-starters and are guaranteed to make you two smile and have a good laugh together.
You can use these questions to start a flirty, romantic or ice breaker conversations with your crush, your boyfriend, a new guy or any guy.
Here are 100+ of the best fun questions to ask a guy you like, in any situation.
These questions can be more than just fun, they can unlock some secrets, they can tell you a lot about your crush, and they can strengthen your bond faster than you’ve ever imagined.
(👉 Read: How to know if he is serious about you)
Overview
Fun Questions to Ask a Guy Over Text
When you try to talk to a guy through text, asking him questions like “what’s your celebrity crush and why” is a big no-no.
If you need topics to talk about with a guy over text, that would seem natural, they should start with “current affairs” (the latest news, reality show happenings, etc).
Text is not the place to ask him how many times he checks himself out naked in the mirror every day.
👉See how to flirt with him over text!
1. What’s your favorite sport and sportsperson?
2. What’s the weirdest text you’ve ever received from a girl?
3. Tell me the truth…how many selfies do you have on your phone?
4. What’s your favorite store you like to go to?
5. What’s your least favorite class/teacher?
6. What do you do when you’re bored?
7. I’ve just finished doing…(this and that). What are you up to?
8. Did you ever get dumped over text?
9. If you find $100 on the floor right now, what would you do with it?
10. What’s your favorite reality show?
11. Do you think you could give up technology for a week?
12. What’s the most-played song on your phone?
13. What’s the lamest joke you’ve ever heard?
14. Would you prefer a day at the beach or a movie marathon?
Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy (to Turn Him On)
These questions are sure to make him wake up and think about you 😉
1. If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you focus on?
2. Which sexy scene from a movie would you want to recreate with me?
3. What’s the longest you’ve gone without doing it?
4. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?
5. Did you ever see edible underwear on a girl – in person?
6. What’s your naughtiest fantasy?
👉 The questions below are appropriate only if you’re already dating the guy, or you feel comfortable enough around him.
7. What is the worst thing that somebody has walked in on you doing?
8. What is your biggest turn on?
9. What’s the craziest place you ever had sex?
10. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did this person ever find out, and if so, what happened?
11. How often do you examine your naked self in the mirror?
12. Name a place on your body where you are most ticklish?
13. Would you kiss a girl on the first date?
14. Ever tried online dating? Worst experience?
15. How would you feel if your girlfriend had a guy best friend?
16. If you had to make out with a friend of the same sex to save the world from aliens, whom would you pick?
17. If you had to explain about the birds and the bees to a child, let me hear how you’d go about explaining it to them?
18. What is the one thing a woman should never do?
19. What is the first thing you do when you get out of bed?
20. What’s under your bed?
21. What do you wear to bed?
22. Would you consider yourself obsessed with anything/anyone?
23. Have you ever been stood up?
24. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
25. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time?
26. What is the best compliment you have ever received?
27. Who would you want to be tied to for 24 hours?
28. Have friends ever been a factor for you in the breakup of a relationship?
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Fun Questions to Ask a Guy – In Person
The secret to having a great conversation is to ask open questions (as opposed to yes/no questions) and to answer them yourself after your crush has answered.
Just one of these questions can lead to a good 30-minute conversation, full of smiles and giggles, which will instantly get you closer to your crush.
1. What would you do if you could be invisible for one whole day?
2. What’s the funniest way a girl has asked you out?
3. What was your first date (ever) like?
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4. What’s the worst lie you ever told? Did you get caught?
5. If you could change anything about you or your life, what would you change now?
6. If you could change one thing in your past, what would you change?
7. If you could change your name to anything in the world, what would you change it to?
8. If you could take a girl to any place in the world, where would it be?
9. What body part would you change on yourself if you could?
10. If your house was on fire and you could only save one thing, what would it be?
11. Can you fake an accent? If yes, would you show me?
12. What is the best sports stadium/arena you have been to?
13. What’s the last thing you argued with your parents about?
14. Are you planning on studying after Year 12?
15. Do you ever eat food that’s been dropped on the floor?
16. If you could win a lifetime supply of anything – what would you want it to be?
17. If money were no object, what would you have for breakfast every day?
👉Btw, if you have no clue whether this guy is into you at all, here’s how to know if he likes you.
Fun Question to Ask a Guy – on a Date
I always advise to not get into “heavy” conversations on the first few dates. Resist the temptation to ask a guy about his past relationships, what his ex like is, and what’s his favorite porn.
Keep it casual, funny and light. Here are some fun questions to ask a guy on a date:
1. If you could be a woman for one day, what would you do in that day’s time?
2. If you could commit any crime and get away with it, what would it be?
3. If your life was turned into a movie, what actor would play you?
4. Do you have any enemies?
5. If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
6. If you could travel through time and meet yourself when you were a kid, what would you say?
7. Are you happy being single?
8. Would you rather have true love or win the lottery?
9. What’s your idea of a perfect day? / If today was the last day of your life, how would you spend it?
10. Would you rather be smart and ugly or dumb and beautiful?
11. Ever had a rumor spread about you?
12. What movie deserves a sequel?
13. If you could lock up one person in a mental institution, who would it be?
14. What would you refuse to do for one million dollars?
15. If fat, calories, cholesterol, etc. were not an issue, what two foods would you feast on?
16. Can you cook?
17. What household chore have you never done?
18. Who is your most admired athlete of all-time?
19. What animal or insect disgusts you the most?
20. Are you a nice drunk or a nasty drunk?
21. If you could be a member of any TV-sitcom family, which would it be?
22. If you had to dispose of a dead body, how would you do it?
23. Where is the farthest place you ever traveled in a car?
24. What was the first job you ever had?
25. Have you ever cheated on a test?
26. Can you touch your nose with your tongue?
27. What radio station do you turn to when you are in the car?
28. Have you ever been punched in the face? Why?
29. Have you ever broken a bone? How?
30. What is your most visited website?
31. Have you ever been on a diet?
32. If you could work for anyone you choose, who would it be?
33. Are you closer to your dad or your mom? Why?
34. Who was your first crush?
35. What’s the meanest thing you’ve ever done to someone to get back at them?
36. Do you save money or spend it?
37. What makes you really sleepy?
38. What is the nicest thing someone else has done for you?
39. What would you do if you didn’t like your mate’s new girlfriend?
40. What’s at the top of your post-school bucket list?
41. What Kind Of Physical Touch Best Says “I Love You” To You?
42. Would You Rather Never Have To Clean A Bathroom Again Or Never Have To Do Dishes Again?
43. What was the most embarrassing moment in your life?
👉 Read: The worst dating mistakes women make, and how to avoid them.
This concludes my ultimate list of fun questions to ask a guy.
Did you know?
One of the best ways to flirt with a guy over text is to play the classic game of embarrassment – Truth or Dare!
📢 Here’s my list of 80+ flirty truth or dare questions over text – enjoy!
I hope you find them useful and if you have any other ideas for questions, please share them with me…
And, if your next step is getting your crush to fall for you head over hills, here’s how to do it.
I’m sure I left out a few great questions, what are your ideas for questions? Share with me in the comments..
Rooting for ya,
Lisa
Jamie says
These are some really stupid questions to ask a guy. All guys are different. Some guys would be flattered by a girl asking these questions and some won’t. The Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy (to Turn Him On), I think those questions are inappropriate to ask a guy you barely know and don’t know you. Yeah, they’re fine to ask if you’re in a relationship or if you’re a slutty chick that has no shame. If I was a guy and a girl started flirting with me asking these questions, I would be turned off by her and walk away.
Bella says
How can I make my boyfriend not to get bored and far away from routine?
Adri says
These questions work really well 🙂
paula says
these questions are nice. i think they will be a lot of help to me. but what do i do if they don’t work as i want them to or if they back fire because i have’nt really met this guy im crushing on in person.
Lisa Redfield says
There’s no way they won’t “work”. They can all start a great conversation, there’s nothing really to lose here… 🙂
Stopper Jane says
The questions are quite fun… Loooove it!
Robyn says
Yeah, I’ve bonded a lot with my crush. We actually like each other but we’re waiting a bit to get to know each other before we start dating
Someone says
Had lots of fun w/ these questions… Thanks!
Bruno Rachuonyo says
these questions are wow,and some are dilema in manner.love it
Smsoma says
love these questions!
Ozla says
I love all of these questions. I asked him who he would want to be tied to for 24 hrs and he said me! How cute?